The NEW Single Mom: What She Looks Like Now

The NEW Single Mom: What She Looks Like Now

A woman clothed in strength, perseverance and good will shall be undefeated.  She is strong. She’s educated. And she’s more affluent now than ever before. Single moms today are part of one of the fastest growing segments in the United States. She is YOU! BBVA Compass shares 10 key facts about single mothers then and now. See what’s behind the change with where single mothers are now here!

 

 

 

She is strong. She is educated. She is more affluent than ever before. And she is part of one of the fastest growing segments in the United States.

Cinco De’ Mama

Cinco De’ Mama

Today, is my son’s fathers birthday.
For the past week or so, I have been brainstorming over what I should get him as a present. I had already purchased two of the best “Happy Birthday Dad” Hallmark cards I could find; they would’ve been fancy, creative and custom made greeting cards had I not procrastinated and acted on my plan weeks in advance, as I had in the past. But since I hadn’t gotten ahead of it, two cards from Walmart, signed “from his son” would have to suffice.
That sounded good, but being the over the top aka “extra-mom” that I am, I couldn’t resist asking myself, “But what ELSE should I do?”  I have to admit that in the last three years since we had my son, I always made it a point to send thoughtful sentiments to his Dad. Creative expressions to show him that we were on his team and thinking of him, even though we are miles and miles away. “You got your baby daddy WHAT?” I would hear my male friends who are also dads, say when I summoned their thoughts on my gifts. “My kids mom would NEVER do that for me!” They would say in surprised and borderline envious tones. “Wish you were MY baby mama.”
Previously, I had sent specially  engraved silver pieces, wallets and money holders with his initials, printed out monies (homemade on my computer) adorned with his photo as if he were the King of Zemunda. Personalized “old man” socks and other thoughtful gifts, purchased or crafted by us. But this year, I was at a loss for ideas. Or perhaps, it’s that I’m at a loss for concern. You see, I believe what I noticed this year is the sincere and genuine energy that I have given over these past years, towards my child’s father. My efforts from the start had been intentional, with the purpose of bond-building; to show thoughtfulness and to encourage reciprocity. But on this 4th year of “intentional relationship building” towards my sons father, I have to admit that my mind is just flat out tired. Maybe this attrition and my lackluster birthday efforts can be attributed to my own personal life, transitioning as an entrepreneur or the recent loss of my grandmother. I am mentally and physically tired. And for the first time since I’ve been in this “co-parenting” situation, I allowed myself to be okay with not being so “giving”.
Today, I told myself, “Girl stop being so extra…it’s alright if the best damn gift he received this year, did not come from YOU.” It’s okay, even WITHOUT a monetary gift, he values your thoughtfulness, how cool you are and how easy you make the awkward reality of co-parenting from a distance. And it is OKAY, that you didn’t put his birthday cards in the mail until YESTERDAY and he probably won’t receive them until the end of the week. Hell, he probably won’t even check the darn mail until next week anyway! It’s okay. LIFE is Oh-kay!
You’re doing an awesome job as a friend, parent and mom. Carry on.
Love to all the moms, from Sky! Happy Cinco DE’MAMA!!
Follow Sky Houston @sky_houston

 

Come Fly with Me!

Come Fly with Me!

Ahhhhhh…. fresh flowers, cool temperatures, picnic tables and it’s not a bird, it’s not a plane, but a kite, hundreds of them! Hermann Park celebrates its Third Annual Kite Festival tomorrow, April 3, 2016 at Miller Hill and Jones Reflection Pool, 10AM – 5PM.

The kite festival is free for the family! There will be entertainment for kids including face painting, kite flying and more.

For more information, click here! 

Follow on Instagram @hermannpark

 

World Autism Awareness Day #LIUB

World Autism Awareness Day #LIUB

What is Autism? Autism is a developmental disability that affects how one communicates with and relates to other people; a spectrum condition. It also affects how one makes sense of the world around them.

Single parenting is one of the greatest gifts of all. And it keeps on giving as children grow into their own beautiful beings. Parenting alone has its own difficulties, and raising a child with special needs can sometimes be even more interesting. Did you know that Autism, or ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) is the fastest growing developmental disability? 1 in 68 births are prevalent in the United States.

Meet Rebekah McClelland. She’s a single mom with Aspergers, raising two sons, the oldest diagnosed as high functioning on the Autism spectrum. She readily admits that she’s different, her boys are different and they CELEBRATE it! Her life with Autism has been extremely good, but being different has brought… check out her full story here!

Rebekah McClelland is a child and newborn photographer!

Follow her on Facebook @ Rebekah McClelland.

Why Collaborate and Not Compete

Why Collaborate and Not Compete

In case you haven’t noticed, collaborating and partnering with others is the new entrepreneurship. But when you really think about it, reaching larger audiences, co-working and sharing your vision and goals with like minded people, it does make sense. Speaker, author and teacher Jotina Buck says in her latest blog ‘Competition is the Old Model, Collaboration is the New Model’ that when working with others, “you have to commit to being a part of something that is bigger than yourself.”

Collaboration is not about losing your identity, but… read more here!

Follow Jotina Buck @jotinab
Website: www.jotinabuck.com